Date of L.O.V.E

Yesterday, 2013.1.4. In Chinese, it means 我爱你，一生一世 (I love you forever). Many of the beautiful pictures and quotes are found on the internet and social media. People is creative in using the matters around us such as date, time and etc to make a particular day become meaningful.

Picture explanation: 5=I ,520= I Love you, 1314= forever. This is the Chinese translation based on the number above.

This event makes me recall on a particular evening when my friend and I, both of us was sitting in the coffee house chit-chatting. Both of us was talking something that keep us further elaborating on it. That is the topic of LOVE. She asked: will you be finding another girlfriend? and I answered: I guess so!

She further posting another question on me by asking, what is the definition of love? Personally, without any standard measurement, love is something holy for me. Love is part of God life that we should respect each other, love each other forever once you have commit yourself in that relationship. of course, we cannot expect a relationship should be perfect in that way. Sometimes, we might face some problem or hurdle throughout the process of love. We cannot expect everything to work in the way that we want. Since, this is the problem, I think couple should hold their hands tight to overcome all the hurdle that will make them fall apart. This is what we call Love, right?

For me, I leave everything to our Almighty Father to decide it for me. In future, I might be ended up in a marriage life, or single life or even a priesthood life. Let God decide for me, because everything He do for us, He has his reason.

Student's Arena

On a particular evening, a friend of mine send me a message and sharing her stories with me. Basically the topic is more on the problems that she faced when she is back to university. She shared with me something that bother her so much, that is the relationship between her and her course-mates.

I will not share the entire things that she has spoken to me, but partly some of the essential part that makes me really think about it. After the sharing, what makes me really think about is the RELATIONSHIP that students have between their course-mates.

I am certainly bless that the course-mates surrounded me, they are just kind and good (Mostly). Of course, we cannot expect people to have perfections in each of every aspects because no one are prefect on earth.  But her situations is totally opposite compare to mine. She has a course-mates who don't really like to share notes with her, and talking bad about her in front of other people. That is the worse part that she couldn't take and tolerate.

Well, I am sure that all of us will face such problem. Regardless of whether you are in the study's arena or working life. Sure that we will meet few people like this in our life, some sort of backstabbing. This is the reality of life. Mainly, different people come from different background and they have their own thinking and characters. Sometimes, we just cannot expect everyone to be nice and perfect in our life.

BE STRONG!

We just have to make sure that we ourselves should not contain such attitude in us, so that you can be a special and unique person, but not perfect! Haha!

Have a blessed day!